Sermon preached at RUF’s Wednesday Night Fellowship on February 20, 2019. You can live the “good life” without sex but you cannot live the “good life” without friends. Friendship is that important. That said, you cannot be friends with everybody. You get to choose your friends, so choose wisely. Your choice of friends will make or break your life. The marks of a good friend are constancy, forgiveness, speaking the truth in love, and safeguarding secrets. Jesus is (and wants to be) your best friend. Give yourself in friendship to him too.
Ps. 24:1; Eph. 6:1-4: Relating to Our Parents
Sermon preached at RUF’s Wednesday Night Fellowship on Feb. 13, 2019. Parents are stewards (not owners) of the children entrusted to their care. Parents have a two-fold responsibility to discipline and instruct their children. Children eventually graduate from obeying their parents, though we never graduate from honoring them.
Eph. 5:1-14: Relating to Our Growth
Sermon preached at RUF’s Wednesday Night Fellowship on Feb. 6, 2019. The point of our creation, salvation, restoration is Christlikeness—being fully human, someone who images/imitates God as a dearly beloved child. Our growth into Christlikeness is a process—a walk, not a snap of the finger or wave of the wand. We grow in the light—i.e., in the context of loving, supportive, life-giving and life-saving relationships.
John 1:35-42: Relating To Our Self
Sermon preached at RUF’s Wednesday Night Fellowship on January 30, 2019. Who am I? What does it mean to be me? The names we are called (by our parents, on the playground) profoundly shape how we see our self and self-worth. That so much power exists outside of our control freaks us out. In a desire for autonomy and even self-protection, we try to make a name for ourselves. We do this primarily through our performance (e.g., resume building) and/or our preferences (e.g., being authentic). This approach has problems of its own: 1) if we attach our self/worth to our success (and failures) we feel good when we are winning and awful when we are not; 2) we can make ourselves judge and jury of our self/worth but we are our own harshest critic; 3) because we are made in the image of a Triune God, we are (by design) dependent on other voices telling us we are good, beautiful, etc. Attempts to create a sense of self/worth independent of the estimation of others is doomed for failure. This brings us back to square one. We need someone from the outside-in to instill in us a sense of self/worth. That is a lot of power to be sure, so we need to be careful who we cede that power to. Only God should have that right: 1) because he knows us better than anyone else (including ourselves), and 2) he loves us. He calls us child, friend, beloved, “mine.”
Isaiah 6:1-8: Relating to God
Sermon preached at RUF’s Wednesday Night Fellowship on January 23, 2019. You know you have a real relationship with the real God when you’ve been rocked by his glory, humbled by his holiness, and tasted amazing grace.
Gen. 1:26; 1 John 4:18-19: Why Relationships
Sermon preached at RUF’s Wednesday Night Fellowship on January 16, 2019. The quality of our life is best measured by the quality of our relationships—relationships Jesus has come to make healthy, whole and right again—our relationship with God, our self, with others, and with the world around us. In this introduction to our semester-long series on relationships, we ask the all important question: “Why?” Why are relationships so fundamental to our well-being? And if they are so vital, why are we so anxious and afraid of getting close?
Praying In: Deliver Us From Evil
Sermon preached at RUF’s Wednesday Night Fellowship on Nov. 14, 2018. God leaves the light and enters into our darkness so we can leave the darkness and enter into his light. His first mission is a “search and rescue” mission—”for God so loved the world” that he sent His son into it, not to destroy it but to save it, not to wield the sword but to fall on it. Jesus is both “the bomb” and “bomb shelter.” When Jesus returns, he will rid the world of evil entirely. The only way to be saved is to believe in him, come to him, and seek refuge “in him.”
Praying In: Lead Us Not Into Temptation
Sermon preached at RUF’s Wednesday Night Fellowship on Nov. 7, 2018. The temptation to sin, to forsake God, and forge our own path (“you do you”) does not come from God but from the Devil. Temptation is rooted in doubt and distrust. If we believed God was good, loving, and for us, we’d always heed His voice and do as He says. But we don’t. What is it going to take to convince us that God is good, loving, and for us? How can He lead us not into temptation, which is to say, to lead us out of it, through it, over it? We need to see Jesus, listen to Jesus, and rest in Jesus.
Praying In: ...As We Have Forgiven Our Debtors
Sermon preached at RUF’s Wednesday Night Fellowship on Oct. 31, 2018. Forgiveness is difficult, painful, costly. As Mohatma Gandhi said, it is not for the weak but is “the attribute of the strong.” Where are we going to get the strength and the resources to forgive? In order to forgive, we need 1) to know that God has indeed forgiven the sins of the world; 2) the great depths to which we ourselves have been forgiven; and 3) to join ourselves to a community that values and nurtures forgiveness (i.e., the Church).
Praying In: Forgive Us Our Debts...
Sermon preached at RUF’s Wednesday Night Fellowship on Oct. 24, 2018. When a prostitute crashes the dinner party of a well-respected member in the community, Jesus responds with a story: “Once upon a time….” In the story that Jesus tells, one person has a large debt, the other a smaller one—the point being that some people’s lives are messier than others, some people have bigger debts to pay. And yet, at the end of the day, even the one with the smaller debt cannot pay the banker back; he cannot make good on his loan; both debtors are bankrupt in the end. Graciously, debt forgiveness is offered to all. However, only those who recognize their need will receive it. What about you? What will you do?